Elena Vella EV
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Elena Vella

Love, Life & Relationships Editor
Love & RelationshipsMind & Soul
Experience 8 years Education Psychology, University of Melbourne Known for Relationship writing, psychology of love, Mediterranean women's perspective
Biography

Elena Vella grew up in Żabbar, the second of three daughters of a pharmacist and a piano teacher. At twenty-two she boarded a flight to Sydney and spent the next twelve years living in Australia — first in Melbourne, then Bondi, then briefly in a flat in Rome that smelled of basil and poor decisions. She came back to Malta at thirty-four. She will tell you it was for her mother's health. Those who know her well understand it was also for the light. She has been married, as she puts it, more times than she is comfortable specifying in print. She has loved deeply and badly and learned everything the hard way. This is, she argues, the only way to learn anything worth knowing. Her writing is shaped by warmth and precision in equal measure. She understands men — their fears, their silences, their particular brand of avoidance — without disliking them. She loves them, actually. She just refuses to pretend they make sense. She references Almodóvar, Neruda, and occasionally a conversation she had on a Sliema balcony in 2019 that she has never quite recovered from.

✦ Warm, direct. A blade hidden in a compliment.
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Articles by Elena
🌹 Love & Relationships
When Stars Align: They Still Don't Fix Everything
17 May 2026
🧠 Mind & Soul
Control Freak Paradise: Malta's Anxiety Epidemic Explained
17 May 2026
🌹 Love & Relationships
Love Exposed: Celebrity Breakups Tell the Uncomfortable Truth
16 May 2026
🧠 Mind & Soul
Your Feelings Are Information: Here's What They're Actually Telli…
16 May 2026
🌹 Love & Relationships
Love Never Asks Permission: But We Should
15 May 2026
🧠 Mind & Soul
Wrong Mirrors: How Self-Talk Becomes Self-Harm
15 May 2026
🌹 Love & Relationships
Unexpected Confessions: When Reality Shows Tell the Truth
14 May 2026
🧠 Mind & Soul
She Jumped to Escape: The Body Remembers Everything
14 May 2026
🌹 Love & Relationships
The Loneliness Olympics: Everyone's Performing Happiness
13 May 2026
🧠 Mind & Soul
Mind Games: The Psychology of Charging Forward
13 May 2026
🌹 Love & Relationships
Headlines: His Love Language is Traffic
12 May 2026
🌹 Love & Relationships
Headlines: She Loves Algorithm: I'm Not Code
12 May 2026
🧠 Mind & Soul
Inside My Head: The Art of Strategic Forgetting
12 May 2026
🌹 Love & Relationships
When Love Becomes Performance: The Camera Changes Everything
11 May 2026
🧠 Mind & Soul
Monday Mind Shift: The Anxiety We Don't Talk About
11 May 2026
🌹 Love & Relationships
Should You Stay With Someone Who's "Figuring Things Out"?
10 May 2026
🌹 Love & Relationships
What Loneliness Actually Looks Like When You're Coupled Up
10 May 2026
🧠 Mind & Soul
The Guilt of Good Enough: Why Perfectionism Is Actually Self-Sabo…
10 May 2026